You’ve heard me say before that the best way to get hired is to make and foster relationships, then network, network, network. I met Camille Fetter – Founder and Managing Partner of TalentFoot –  almost 2 years ago when we were introduced by a mutual connection in the digital media industry.  Since that time, she has turned to me for some contract work and we have bounced lots of ideas off one-another.  I like her – alot.

Unbeknownst to me, Camille had some ideas of her own in terms of working together on an every day basis! And, now, after many conversations, discussing her needs – as well as mine – we have come to a terrific agreement that’s a win-win for both parties.

I got a job because I put myself out there, talked to a ton of people, who then recommended me to others and eventually connected me with someone who I respect and admire.  I hope now that 2012 is upon us, all of you will do the same. Put yourself out there. Talk to people.  Make relationships.  Build upon them.  Doors will open – I promise you!

I still plan to “talk turkey” with all of you and hope you will all choose to tune in when I do.  Until then…Carpe Diem.

Yikes!

This particular client had been working as a perma-freelancer within the organization for over a year and was pretty alarmed by the changes.  So far, he has kept his job while the departed in the division have yet to be replaced.   I asked him to try to look at the situation in a different light, ecouraging him to put forth his resume with a note saying something to the effect of “I’d like to throw my hat in the ring to secure a permanent position on your team.  I have been working as a freelancer for over a year and I know the ropes and how to get things done.  Although I regret that others lost their jobs, I am very enthusiastic about the direction you and the executive team are moving in.  I would be eager to discuss this new direction, some ideas I have and how I can help bring the changes you envision to life.  Attached is my resume for your consideration….”

My client was very uncomfortable with my proposal and told me that “I didn’t understand what was going on internally.” Well, it’s true, I’m not there and I’m not the one experiencing the turmoil. It’s normal when something like this happens to be agitated, upset and frightened.  But, what I tried to show my client is that there are always two ways to look at a situation.  ”Stop looking at the negative and see the positive.  You ARE still there.  The executive team doesn’t know you.  And, you have an advantage over an outsider – you know how the company operates and you can get things done quickly and effectively because of that.”

Did my client follow my advise?  I don’t think he did, which is too bad.  After all, what does he have to lose?  Nothing.  He can only gain by putting forth the effort.

After each blog post I sign off by saying “carpe diem.”  Sieze the day.  It’s the people who are willing to take chances, are confident and aggressive  that move forward in their careers.  So the next time there’s a shake up in your department/company, after the initial shock evaporates, if you are still around, seize the day. Try to make something good come out of it. Take the “glass half full” approach to the situation.

Carpe Diem….

I kind of ripped this guy a new asshole because the entire premise is so discriminatory.  My father could have been an abusive drunk, my mother could be deceased and I could be single without a family picture to show.  But, I also could have worked my butt off and pulled myself up by my boot straps to make something out of myself.  That shows perserverence, drive and passion.  But, I guess that’s not important to Nick.  So be it.

Today,I received an email today from “Shannon,” who says, after reading this post:  ”Hiring is discrimination all around.  You presume someone would be a good fit based on the discrimination of a resume and where they went and what they did.  Based upon an in-person, face-to-face interview and what the gut tells them, is also another presumption that is discrimination. I come dressed appropriately, yet I do not mesh with your personality  and even though I have proven job performances, you are NOT going to hire me based upon your discrimination and your gut…”

Shannon goes on about the entire hiring process being discriminatory by its very nature. It got me thinking.

According to Webster, discrimination means “prejudiced, prejudical outlook, action or treatment.”

Is a resume a discriminatory tool?  I suppose there are some aspects to it that could be.  The hiring manager could certainly discriminate based on schooling.  As a recruiter, I’ve had clients who have requested that candidates only come from Ivy Leagues or top tier univerisities.  That’s a form of discrimination in terms of elitism and I’m never happy when a client makes this decision.  And, as a resume writer I often tell clients to delete any political affiliations because it can spark negative judgements amongst hiring managers who don’t share the same political beliefs.  Politics do not belong in the workplace. It’s just too divisive – and this holds true when it comes to a resume.

However – the resume is not a place for you to simply state where you have worked or gone to school.  It’s a place for you to spell out your accomplishments in your career.  It’s a place for you to outline how your path has made you the perfect candidate for the job you are applying for.  There’s nothing prejudicial about that.  If you don’t have the background or skills or “chops” for the job, you’re not going to get the interview.  That’s not discrimination – that’s qualification.

As to the in-person interview, I don’t believe, as Shannon does, that making a judgement call about someone’s personality – or lack thereof – is discriminatory.  If I’m the hiring manager and I find you to be abrasive and/or I don’t think you will get along with my team, then there’s a validity to that.  If I don’t like you because you are a woman or you are obese, well that’s a different story.  I wonder what Shannon thinks about the dating process.  If I meet someone and am not attacted to them or don’t feel as though they share my core values, is that discriminatory?  That would be a bold use of the word and I think it’s wrong.  The hiring process is not perfect. There are elements of it that can, and often are discriminatory (to my dismay).  But, overall, I think it’s a mistake to say the entire system is prejudicial even if certain people within the system are predisposed to prejudices.  What do you think?

Carpe diem…

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